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“I’m Not Good Enough” — The Root Belief Behind Most Anxiety
- Jessica Adams
- Jun 24
- 1 min read
It’s the quiet thought behind almost every spiral: “I’m not good enough.”
This belief shows up in subtle but powerful ways:
Comparing yourself to others constantly
Feeling like you have to prove yourself
Worrying people will find out you're a fraud (hello, imposter syndrome)
Where This Belief Comes From
Critical early environments
Academic pressure
Social media comparisons
Why It’s So Anxious-Making
Your brain sees every situation as a test — and your nervous system stays hyperalert.
It’s exhausting trying to earn your worth every day.
How to Start Shifting It
Affirmation: “I am already enough.”
Catch the comparison: “She’s not better — she’s just different.”
Root into worth that’s unconditional
🌿 Inside my coaching programmes, we help you separate your worth from your performance and finally feel safe in your own mind.
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