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“I’m Not Good Enough” — The Root Belief Behind Most Anxiety

It’s the quiet thought behind almost every spiral: “I’m not good enough.”

This belief shows up in subtle but powerful ways:

  • Comparing yourself to others constantly

  • Feeling like you have to prove yourself

  • Worrying people will find out you're a fraud (hello, imposter syndrome)


Where This Belief Comes From

  • Critical early environments

  • Academic pressure

  • Social media comparisons


Why It’s So Anxious-Making

Your brain sees every situation as a test — and your nervous system stays hyperalert.

It’s exhausting trying to earn your worth every day.


How to Start Shifting It

  1. Affirmation: “I am already enough.”

  2. Catch the comparison: “She’s not better — she’s just different.”

  3. Root into worth that’s unconditional


🌿 Inside my coaching programmes, we help you separate your worth from your performance and finally feel safe in your own mind.


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