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Reducing Stress and Anxiety
Tools, strategies and conversation starters to help you recognise and prioritise reducing your stress and anxiety.


Why is urgency a trauma response?
Did you know that a constant sense of urgency and rushing are trauma responses? This could show up as a need to do it all and figure it...

Jessica Adams
Oct 11, 20222 min read


How to deal with boundary setting guilt
How often have you set a boundary and felt guilty afterwards? Guilt can push you straight into a negative thought spiral and make you...

Jessica Adams
Aug 30, 20223 min read


Are you living on autopilot?
I wanted to try something a bit different with you this week, and make this blog post more interactive. Instead of providing an...

Jessica Adams
Aug 23, 20222 min read


How to express healthy anger
Let's normalise replacing reactivity with vulnerability. Showing others what is going on internally, when it is done with intention, is a...

Jessica Adams
Aug 16, 20222 min read


3 key strategies to overcome sleep procrastination
I mentioned sleep procrastination in last week's blog post 'a key function of sleep that we don't talk about' if you haven't read it yet,...

Jessica Adams
Jul 12, 20222 min read


A key function of sleep that we don't talk about
One key function of sleep that we don't talk about and may be affecting you is something called 'the executive brain.' Have you heard of...

Jessica Adams
Jul 5, 20222 min read


8 signs that you are over-responsible
Feeling overly-responsible can quickly become normalised. For example, it can be encouraged in the workplace to consistently take on more...

Jessica Adams
Jun 28, 20222 min read


Why you shouldn't immediately use coping skills for anxiety
Yep, you read that right. Coping skills are often used when you're feeling high anxiety levels as a way to reduce or get rid of the...

Jessica Adams
Jun 21, 20222 min read


Let's talk: dissociation
Dissociation is the mind's way of dealing with stressful situations. It can last for short periods of time, or for much longer....

Jessica Adams
Jun 14, 20221 min read


Triggers: What, why, and how to self-regulate
So, what do we mean when we say we are triggered? Being triggered means that you're experiencing past pain in the present moment. It can...

Jessica Adams
May 31, 20223 min read


What is the connection between trauma, over-explaining and oversharing?
Back by popular demand! What is the connection between trauma, over-explaining and oversharing? Both over-explaining and oversharing fall...

Jessica Adams
May 24, 20223 min read


Over-explaining: what it is, why you do it, and ways to stop.
The need to over-explain is often formed in childhood in response to a fear of being criticised, rejected or abandoned if others don't...

Jessica Adams
May 17, 20222 min read


Common drains and tips to refill for empaths
Unpopular opinion: understanding individualised drains and how to limit or avoid is a milestone for empaths. An even harder milestone is...

Jessica Adams
May 10, 20221 min read


7 Types of Fatigue Everyone Needs to Know About
Sometimes it can be hard to pinpoint why we are in a persistent state of exhaustion. There are various types of fatigue that may lead us...

Jessica Adams
May 3, 20223 min read


What could your anxiety be trying to tell you?
I hear you. Anxiety is hard. It's uncomfortable. It's debilitating. It's scary. It's exhausting. It would be great if you could wave a...

Jessica Adams
Apr 26, 20222 min read


How our nervous system impacts the way we think and how we see the world
In my opinion nervous system regulation is still massively overlooked in my line of work, but it is becoming more recognised. Let me give...

Jessica Adams
Apr 12, 20222 min read


4 tips to stop feeling guilty for having low energy
Who feels guilty about having low energy? 🙋♀️ It is such a problematic thought pattern and it's difficult to overcome. Trust me, I...

Jessica Adams
Apr 5, 20221 min read


Underrated signs of healing and recovery
Sometimes it can be hard to measure progress when we are healing. So, here are some subtle signs of your recovery process... Taking care...

Jessica Adams
Mar 22, 20222 min read


Self-care tips for loneliness
As we move away from the hype of the festivities, from reels and reels of content everywhere showing human connection and wholesome...

Jessica Adams
Dec 28, 20211 min read


How do you stop caring about what other people think?
Caring what people think is something that a lot of people have struggled with. Some battle with this occasionally, some battle with this...

Jessica Adams
Dec 7, 20211 min read
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